Member Spotlight: Martin S. Pribble

 

One does not have to be a woman to see the problems women face in society. One does not have to be a woman to stand up for the rights of women. One does not have to be a woman to be a feminist. In this sense, my feminism IS humanism, and the only reason I make a distinction between the two is that women as a group face far more hurdles than men do in general. I’m supporting those who need the help most.

 

It is perhaps more than a bit ironic that a journey beginning with spiritual and supernatural doubt brought Martin Pribble to a place of greater certainty.

Not certainty of the existence or non-existence of a deity, but of the importance of preserving human rights in the face of anything—either flawed thinking or the misguided policies it creates—that may infringe on them.

American-born but raised in Australia, Pribble’s family was nominally Christian. Churchgoing was reserved for extended family, but he, his parents, and his brother celebrated major holidays of the faith, and participated in prayer at large family gatherings.

The move to Melbourne, where Pribble still resides today, was the catalyst in the process that led to both his nonbelief and his commitment to equality. The government-run school he and his brother attended sat next to a synagogue, and this functioned as his first exposure to a non-Christian belief system. In fact, many of his classmates were Jewish, and the novelty of knowing people who did not celebrate Christmas in December led to a number of discussions about where Christianity and Judaism agreed—and where they diverged.

By age 12, Pribble had decided his path lay outside of organized religion. But he remained fascinated by the possibility of a supernatural dimension. Just as his inquiring mind had led to the dissolution of his ties to Christianity, so did self-guided inquiry divest him of what he calls the “weak deism” that once filled the gaps in his knowledge.

Pribble dove into the study of spirituality, the occult and cryptozoology, finding that scientific methods did a much better job at providing explanations for these phenomena than did the vagaries of superstition. And, moreover, that legends and unfounded beliefs explain much more about the human condition than they do about the world outside the senses.

“After reading authors such as Joseph Campbell and Gaston Bachelard, I realized just how much of human history is tied up in a need to explain,” he says. “All mythology springs from this need, and all mythology…falls apart in terms of the…‘actuality’ of the world around us.”

However, it was not until after reading Richard Dawkins’ The God Delusion that Pribble says he gained the strength to join those trying to combat the worldwide detrimental effects of outdated methods of explanation.

The need for intervention, Pribble admits, is much more pressing in other parts of the world than in Australia. While there are some small, vocal groups like the Australian Christian Lobby in the country trying to insinuate religious educational or ministry programs in public schools, for instance, the Middle East, Afghanistan and Pakistan, India, Indonesia, and even the country of his birth suffer much more from the fallout of fundamentalist resurgence, says Pribble.

And while he does debate with believers via Twitter (@martinpribble) and his blog (martinspribble.com), he has found that engaging with issues rather than with individuals is a more effective way to raise consciousness across the board.

Pribble is an active member of the Atheist Foundation of Australia, a member of Think Atheist, Atheist Universe, and many other online groups. Pribble is also a fully fledged member of Secular Woman, whose advocacy for gender equality he hopes to see extend worldwide as the organization grows.

To Pribble, feminism is a logical extension of humanism, and deserving of a special highlight in his retinue of causes.

“Half of humanity is female, and if human rights are brought forward only to benefit men, then it fails to meet [the] criteria of equality,” he says. 

He acknowledges that women’s rights across the globe depend on many more factors than just religion. However, he says, religion, gender, feminism, politics, culture and social evolution are inextricably linked.

“For me it's all the same fight,” he says, “a many-headed dragon that needs all its heads severed in order to make progress.”

 

Reed Walton, Outreach Committee Member

To learn more about Martin Pribble and hear about his commitment to feminism in his own words, visit http://martinspribble.com/2012/08/member-spotlight-at-secular-woman/.

Member Spotlight: Emily Dietle

For Emily Dietle, the processes of letting go of religious belief and embracing feminism were mutually interdependent.

The blogger and activist grew up in what she labels “a sexually repressed religious family in sexually oppressive, religious Texas.” Dietle, who has a much younger brother, essentially grew up as an only child, hopping from church to church and denomination to denomination. By and large, her mother made the decisions as to where the family would worship. But Dietle’s father only rarely came along as mother and daughter tried services in traditions including Methodist, Pentecostal, and Presbyterian.

“My dad’s absence from church troubled me greatly as a very little girl,” Dietle says. “I wanted to make sure he was ‘going to Heaven,’ too.”

As she grew up, the first cracks in the edifice of belief appeared and began to widen. Nothing Dietle had seen in Christianity, for example, was compatible with her emerging bisexuality. Having experienced attraction along many points in the gender spectrum even before she could put words to the feeling created only questions and doubts when put up against unyielding faith.

Ironically, it was a pastor who encouraged Dietle to explore her doubts. She still has deep respect for the man who encouraged a questing spirit, even if it led away from religion.

It is that questing approach that she hopes to inspire in others, whether they are believers, questioners, or nonbelievers with accommodationist leanings.

“For someone that insists that religion and equality are bedfellows, I would offer ample evidence to the contrary, and request that they do a little digging for themselves,” she says, “the goal being that if they read more material, they will uncover more than I could have convinced them of in argument.”

Dietle herself has become a purveyor of information on secular and women’s causes. Through her blog, EmilyHasBooks, and multimedia guest spots alongside numerous movers and shakers in the burgeoning secular movement, she is providing other nonbelievers the same kind of support she found in the online atheist community.

The support of a global network of like minds encouraged her to “come out” publicly, and helped her cope with the sometimes hurtful reactions of believing friends and family members.

Across the spectrum of believers, from kindly pastor to confrontational fundamentalist, Dietle’s approach to explaining her passion for reason and feminist ideals reflects her personal experience:

“[M]y aim isn't to upset the individual, but to place seeds in their thoughts or push them to begin questioning their perspective.”

When asked why she joined Secular Woman (SW), this is what Dietle had to say: “The values and goals that Secular Woman has outlined are strong and positive, and I joined this organization with the hopes that it will fill the needs of non-religious women seeking to make a difference in their communities.

"Though religious leadership has been dominated by males throughout modern history, the internal support and outreach has been done by women. We find that women have a difficult time leaving their religious communities that provide the backbone of their social network and support. When I heard about Secular Woman from Bridget Gaudette [the VP of Outreach], I realized that it would provide much needed support for women transitioning out of religion, and for those already out who are seeking to grow.”

Emily was pivotal during the first few days after SW was mobilized and remains a strong supporter. She used her social media savvy to increase our audience significantly. Secular Woman will forever be indebted to her. 

Reed Walton, Outreach Committee Member/Writer